The other day, a friend of mine came and told me about her side of story to her boyfriend….

She said, “It’s enough. I’ve had it. We are done!”

And i said to her, “Oh yes, why?”

And she start to tell me about everything… Absolutely everything. (And yes, the sexuality part too!)Hehe. Not in here please… She tells me how everything start with a good signal, how everything starts with a nice flow and so on…..

Up till she tells me that after two years of samen-leven, she finallyhad enough and want to go to the next step. Oh yes she did try, yet she’s heart been tore apart by false promises and hopes….

We had a long lunch at that day. Like from 13:30 to 16:30….

After 1 gado-gado, 2 bottled tea, 2 glass of mineral water and a pack of cigarettes….. I am always trying to say to her that…

“MAN is always act on selfishness… Not that they are trying to, but based on their nature… So, please let us know of what you think and not try to run away from us… Coz, some man are quite unbelievable when it comes to revenge….”

My point of saying that to her is that in some point, women always think that her man will always know what is happening in her own mind, what is her needs, what is her passion.

In fact, in the other side; Man who already had a woman for so long (like around 4 years) will always think that his woman will always understand him, from A to Z.

But hey, trust me, they DON’T!

Told her too, that : “At some point, human always find a way to feel secure and comfort… So when they had find it, they’ll start to make a nice room for them in that feeling…. It’s good, you’ll have the motivate to move forward at some point… But don’t get too comfort yet…”

“LIFE IS A JOURNEY, NOT A DESTINATION!(Thanks to Aerosmith).

It is a point where human shall be rocked and maybe flown off from their comfort zone, taken from their boat! And at that time that human will realize that they have to struggle, like what they had done since the day they’ve born!”

Talking about boat… I also tell my friend. “Talk first, talk about everything, all of your emotion, all of your hopes and fears, how you thought of him.”

“Tell him it was gonna be the last time you’ll talk to him about this matter, BUT tell him in a polite manner, it’ll show him that you are in your normal and awake condition.”

“And yet, tell him that if you still done nothing… You’ll walk away without being angry nor afraid of your future. You’ll just walk away…. You’ll just leave the boat….”

(And YES girls, we listen more to what you trying to say, when you talks without crying, shouting, breaking things or doing some other stupid things, it is in a point where we did what you want in a hopes to cheer you up, not the way you think coz we’ve think about it!)

Hopefully both of you will came with a solution.

Hopefully.

 

 

 

Ps:
A few days back, i receive a text saying that they had come out with a win-win solutions. Well, i guess it works after all! Bravo my friends…. Proud of you two….
BTW, where’s my invitation?